Sexual intimacy and the part it plays in marriage

Sexual intimacy is both important and dynamic part of marriage. There are two main similarities that both male and females experience while engaging in coitus. The brain releases dopamine, the feeling of absolute cloud nine. The next is the chemical serotonin, which causes us to feel calm. There are many differences in mental, physical, and emotional that divide men and women while engaged. Let’s first delve into the drive of men to have coitus. Men want to have it to feel safe, close, and warm to his mate. However, for the woman to want to engage in coitus, she needs to feel close, safe, and warm with him first. This can create a problem in the marriage or relationship. The man may seem like a sexual innuendo in her eyes. In his eyes she may seem cold and uncaring, when, for them to be fulfilled they need to understand each other and respect each other. Only communication and understanding of one another can alleviate this. It also helps when they both brainstorm ideas to help each other in small ways around the house, to help each other. When going about doing good, the most important aspects to keep in mind are communication, selflessness, togetherness, and remembering the reasons and purposes of marriage. Keeping these aspects in mind these aspects will not only make each other happier but improve love in the bedroom and out. The improvement of one’s relationship with one’s spouse will lead to increase of satisfaction of life for both parties. But misunderstanding leads to division, and not understanding your partner can lead to heart break and emotional damage while engaging in intimacy. This intimacy is not meant to be a bad thing, but one that is meant to bring all closer to God, their creator that cares about them.